Now, I know there are too many posts on this topic all over the internet, but I have noticed that most of them lack good content. I want to keep this post simple and only reflecting reality. This post is all about how to have great sex.
Great sex is something that both you and your partner enjoy. It is neither all about her pleasure nor is it all about yours. It's a shared experience where you enjoy the pleasure you give each other. It is also the enjoyment of the sensations and feelings.
I know that sounds all metaphysical, but I will break it down for you into simple terms.
Be an Animal
Be an animal. A male lion does not become self-conscious when a lioness present herself to him. No, he takes her, he dominates her, he is not worried about the "size" of his penis, he doesn't care if he isn't the most "attractive" lion, he doesn't care if he cums "too quickly", he doesn't care if he loses his hard-on, he doesn't care if he drools out of pleasure on her, he just bites her neck and takes her. He dominates her to make her feel safe in his powerful kingdom.
For all of you who become overly self-conscious during sex, it's time for a big change. You have no idea how much joy and juice the needless worrying is taking away from your sex.
Be in the moment. You do not need to think about anything else, be present with the woman you're with. You do not need to think about the past or future. Focus on the sensations of sex. Feel her skin, smell her neck, grab her arms with yours, listen to her moaning, do what you want with her (but obviously nothing stupid, don't slap her in the face or disrespect her).
Feel if she gives off even the slightest resistance to a thrust, maybe you're going in too hard. What physically feels good and natural for you, typically feels good and natural for her.
Probably the most important thing to to enjoy sex. You're not there with her to feel self-conscious, you're not there to be critical of her, you're not there to be an asshole or perform pornographic scenes. She's not there to be hurt physically, she's not there to be judged, she's not there to watch you have moral debates with yourself, and most of all, she's not there to watch you worry about your penis size. She wants you to dominate her to make her feel safe.
Sex is a time to put aside everything and just take your woman. Fuck her. Fuck her until you drool. Fuck until you pant and moan. Fuck her to make her squirm in pleasure beneath you. And keep going until you feel fully satisfied.
Don't you find it really hot and sexy when a woman is squirming in pleasure--from what you're doing to her? The exact thing thing is true when you enjoy yourself. She loves it.
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The lion is not worried about what's going to happen next. The lion is the King. The lion is the top of the food chain, he's not worried about someone taking his territory or woman. He's not worried about a woman leaving him. He takes his woman and takes his time with her.
Don't rush it. It takes a time for a woman's vagina to loosen up, warm up and moisten for your cock. Don't just ram your junk into her. Take your time. Take it easy. You'll know when it's time to thrust hard, and dominate her with your steel rod.
Don't Make it Complicated Conclusion
Keep it simple. Be the lion, don't worry about anything, just enjoy all of the pleasure of sex. Who cares if you're not the best now, you will be later--so enjoy what you've got now. Who cares if you lose your hard-on once in a while, continue having fun and just take 30 seconds to get hard again.
If something bugs you about her, fix it. I've pulled out a long thick hair growing out of a girl's nipple once! But I did it in a fun, loving and caring way that didn't make her insecure... Just be man to woman. Be there as partners to enhance each other's lives.